Kegel balls

Kegel balls

What are Kegel balls and what do we use them for? Who can forget that hot scene on Fifty Shades Darker when Christian surprised Anna with a fabulous pair of Kegel balls? It elicited a cringe-worthy moment from Anna when she thought they were going inside her butt. Lucky for her, Christian knelt and popped them inside her vagina and out they went to row the night away. And that was how I first learned of Kegel balls.

What are they?

Love balls or Kegel balls are designed to assist you to find your pelvic floor muscles and know how to work them effectively. They are inserted into the vagina and by clenching and holding them in, it enables you to single out and target the right muscle groups.

Not only do Kegel balls give your internal muscles a good workout, they damn right feel good. Ben WA Balls also increase sexual sensitivity and intensify orgasms.

Before using Kegel balls thoroughly clean them with hot, (fragrance-free) soapy water. It’s highly important to clean your toys before and after use. This prevents you from running the risk of contracting harmful bacteria and STIs if you are sharing your sex toys.

How do I use Kegel balls?

Gently push in the first ball by pressing it against the vagina’s opening. Once the first ball slides in, be sure to also insert the small length silicone between the first and second ball. Once you comfortably tuck this inside, gently press in the second ball inside too.

Once the two balls are in, you can push them in further until you feel they are safe and secure. Make sure that the removal loop hangs outside just like a tampon string.

You don’t have to worry about them coming out since your body is automatically wired to hold them in. However if you feel the need to remove them, simply pull at the removal loop gently until they slide free.

They are in, so?

Wearing Ben WA balls while sitting is not putting them to good use. The more you are on the move, the more they stimulate. So better to pop them in before you start your daily activities. Traveling by bus, doing yoga or even dancing is much more fun when wearing Kegel balls. To get the maximum benefits, just move around.

Can I use them during sex?

Due to the arousing effects that come with wearing jiggle balls, you can insert them an hour before having sex. Once inside you, allow the ball’s gentle movements to massage your insides in the lead up to sex.

 

A Case to Fly Solo

A Case to Fly Solo

Despite the fact that fewer taboos exist around the topic of masturbation, many people still opt out when it comes to discussing it. But whether we are ready to admit it or not, a good number of us still set aside some time for self-pleasure on a regular basis. Research has concluded that adult toys are gaining traction in our daily lives. So the question is, why are we so reluctant to talk about something that is part and parcel of healthy sex life?

I guess one of the reasons behind the reluctance to discuss masturbation are ridiculous and baseless myths surrounding the topic. One of the most peddled myths is that it will make you infertile, or lower your sperm count or that it will shrink your manhood. The craziest of them all is that we are allocated a specific number of orgasms per lifetime, and masturbation uses them up uselessly.

Our conservative mindset towards solo sex doesn’t help steer this conversation in the right direction. Because of the stigma associated with pleasure, we normally view non-procreative sex acts like masturbation as wrong, dirty and unnatural at worst. But this is a very narrow lens to view self-pleasure from.

The best sex toys for self-pleasure

Sex toys such as Rabbit Vibratordildos, and Kegel balls are healthy choices if you are after g-spot stimulation. If you are always on the go, a Lipstick vibrator is a safe choice since people won’t recognize it even if you were to flash it before their eyes. If you find yourself indoors on a boring afternoon, a clit sucking vibrator or magic wand are perfect go tos for mind-blowing orgasms to lighten up your mood.

The truth of the matter is playing with yourself is not only a vital part of self-care but can be extremely good for your overall well being. Below are some of the benefits that come with a little self-pleasure:

It rejuvenates your sex life

Sex is much more intense and pleasurable when you know your body well and what feels good. So how do you figure out your pleasure points? The best way is to afford yourself some time for self-exploration. This will give you a glimpse of your pleasure points, how you like to be touched and what makes you orgasm.

 

Better sleep

Due to the feel-good hormones released by the brain during and after an orgasm, solo sex can be a perfect go-to for good night sleep. These hormones help you relax and relieves you from muscle tensions. So whenever you find yourself tossing and turning, treat yourself to 30 minutes of self-love. The chances of you sleeping like a baby are tenfold.

Safe from STIs

An often-ignored part of solo sex is that you can never contract an STI. Since you are dealing with no one’s bodily fluids but your own, you can relax and enjoy the ride knowing you don’t run the risk of contracting STIs. Always ensure you properly clean your toys to avoid the risk of infections. 

 

 

Assist in balancing sex drives in relationships

In a relationship, you might think you aren’t satisfying your partner but the problem might be mismatched sex drives. Some people have stronger sex drives and masturbation is a healthy way of bridging the gap. A recently conducted research found that women who masturbate often in a relationship are much more satisfied than earlier thought. So next time when you are with your partner, try masturbating without having penetrative sex. This is the ultimate turn on.

Vibrators in Kenya

Vibrators in Kenya

It’s a widely held view that sex sells itself. What of vibrators? How do you go shopping for the best “personal massager” in Kenya? This is even more challenging by our value of privacy, especially intimate privacy. No one wants their kinks laid out for the public to see and judge.

Buying vibrators in Kenya is now just a click away. But how do you ensure that you purchase a sex toy that gives you the vibe of your dreams? After all, you are buying something that will explore your insides, go round and on top of your most intimate regions? I bet you also want a vibrator that is of high quality and easy to clean.

It is important to do some homework on the type of adult toy you want before committing to a purchase. Do you want a rabbit vibrator, a classic vibrator or bullet vibrator? Will a wand vibrator get you off or do you prefer a dildo vibrator geared towards g-spot stimulation? Are vibration speed and patterns something you care about? What of couple vibrators? Or you would rather a clitoral vibrator that imitates receiving head? Do you prefer battery operated toys or those with remote controls?

Moral of the story: YOU HAVE OPTIONS TO CHOOSE FROM AND THEY ARE A LOT.

I’m not here to tell you which vibrator is a must have or anything of the sort. Rather, we are here to lend a helping hand by giving recommendations on the best vibrators. These have been selected based on our customer reviews on some of our products.

Whether you like the “big guy” size or the “little one” or anything in between, we hope to guide you to at least one option for your next solo spin.

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